Especially during this time of quarantine and distancing, your children may spend more time indoors. You can make the most of all this togetherness with some fun and games designed to build family relationships while reinforcing skills. Games promote family bonding while building math, language, and thinking skills. Game play reinforces both character and curriculum by encouraging children to take turns, follow directions, think strategically, and recall information learned or skills developed.
Play a variety of games
Encourage children to play a variety of types of games, both cooperative and competitive. Cooperative games give the students a common goal, while competitive games are opportunities to learn good sportsmanship. While skills-based games stretch a child academically or logically, chance-based games level the playing field when children of varying ages or ability levels are playing together. Some traditional children’s games are geared to the younger set or may be adapted for play by older siblings with their preschool or primary siblings. While online or computer games can spark interest or review concepts, this month we’ll focus on concrete, “in-house” games.
Make games part of the lesson plan
Even the most reluctant or distracted learner can usually be motivated by games. Carol Barnier, in The Big WHAT NOW Book of Learning Styles, shares this insight:
“Time Spent Doing Math: Typical Child—20 minutes; My Child Usually—3 hours; My Child with a Game—30 minutes.”
Her book is chock-full of creative, game-style ideas that are helpful for all types of children, but especially the non-traditional learner.
File folder games and other educational games can be integrated into the learning day; if you use workboxes, these activities can go straight into their boxes. Or you can block out time for games in their lesson plan books. You could have a math games day one day a week, or incorporate some vocabulary-based games for language arts. Your kids may have so much fun learning, you’ll make games part of their everyday routine!
Don’t limit yourself to only “educational” games
Board games such as Yahtzee, True Math, Set, 24, and Number Jumbler are some obvious math choices, but any game that incorporates money or points can reinforce math skills. Language games—including Scrabble, Guggenheim, Taboo, Balderdash, Scattergories, and Password—reinforce vocabulary as well as thinking skills.
Brainteaser games such as Set and Mindtrap encourage logic and strategy. Puzzle books, hidden pictures, and I Spy encourage critical thinking and observation. Set and Muddles don’t even require reading ability, so your toddlers can hold their own against your teens!
Jigsaw puzzles aid in visual discrimination for beginning readers; for example, a child who can discern the slight variances in puzzle shapes will be more likely to recognize the differences between a b and a d or a p and a q. Puzzles can also encourage patience, cooperation, problem solving, and art appreciation. My girls spent hours together constructing a 3D puzzle of the U.S. capitol building.
Trivia games can be useful for reviewing facts such as dates, titles, biographical info, Bible information, and more. When choosing trivia games, be sure to consider the ages and abilities of the players. If they are likely to become a bit too competitive or unevenly matched, team play can be an option.
Scavenger hunts or treasure hunts are fun for the older children to design for their younger siblings. Clues can be riddles to solve or codes to decipher, or simply directions to follow.
Guess Who?, Battleship, Clue, and Risk encourage critical thinking and strategy, while more active games like Twister, Pictionary, Cranium, Charades, and Guesstures can get the muscles and imaginations going (as well as the laughter!). And for an active game with the younger set, try I Can Do That (a Cat in the Hat action game–we have the older card-deck-only set, but they have a newer version).
Games such as Labyrinth (comes in classic and oceans) can help children learn thinking skills as well as content, and many don’t require reading skills.
Pencil-and-paper games such as hangman, word searches, crossword puzzles, complete-the-square, tic-tac-toe, Guggenheim, and Mad Libs can occupy hands and minds on errand days and holiday trips. Cards for Uno, Old Maid, Go Fish, and War also travel well.
More ideas, if you are “game”
- Have a family game night in place of your regular monthly homeschool meeting.
- Start a weekly or monthly game club in your area, using chess or other board games.
- Design your own board games or card packs.
Family fun night
There are games designed specifically for family interaction: Imaginiff and the Ungame encourage sharing of opinions, thoughts, and laughter. Several years ago, Todd Wilson created To Bethlehem for his own family, to allow him to interact with his kids, laugh and act goofy, and help them focus on the real meaning of Christmas.
“There are many kinds of success in life worth having. It is exceedingly interesting and attractive to be a successful business man, or railroad man, or farmer, or a President, or a ranchman, or the colonel of a fighting regiment, or to kill grizzly bears and lions. But for unflagging interest and enjoyment, a household of children, if things go reasonably well, certainly makes all other forms of success and achievement lose their importance by comparison.”
What are some of your family’s favorites? We’d love to learn more…please comment! 🙂
Adapted from a newsletter by this author, previously published at www.hslda.org.